Three months going on four

Have only been like 3 months++ since i officially got into a relationship with L.

Feels like it has been so long , and like I have known him for years 😁 

I can never stop loving this guy. 

Although we have our disagreements at times. He just pours out his feelings and ask for my feelings too... 

So we usually just talk through our unhappiness or our feelings ...

 

No quarrels still 😁😁 so it's a good thing I guess! 

Kinda feel like age is catching up, because from the start of our relationship it is like already somehow considered that we are dating with marriage in mind. In Japanese there is a term: 

結婚(けっこん) 前提(ぜんてい) の付き合い(つきあい).  

In the past,I  didn't even think of marriage when I got into a relationship. 

I just got in because I like/love the guy. 

And after being together , I started thinking " maybe this is the guy I wanna marry?"

Well, the guy proved that he wasn't the one I was gonna marry though. 

Anyway back to L, my parents (especially my dad )likes him, Japan grandparents likes him and singapore grandma loves him (because he is heng hwa and he gave her orhcai) 

Blessed to find someone that my family accepts! Especially the three most important guy in my life 😁😁

My dad, my Japan grandfather and my brother ☺️☺️

We both never thought that we will date someone older/ younger by 5 years.

I somehow set a maximum age of 3 years gap for my boyfriend...

However, this L really make me feel that age is just a number.

If you told me age is just a number in the past , I will be like : " pls laaaa. 5 years leh. Damn old sias. Cannot. Only 1-3 years difference then I ok. " 

 

Now I am like basking in love with this guy who is 5 years older with me. 

Haha , well. 

We can click because his mental age is like 18 laaa. 

Anyway enough of my love story. 

Just wanted to remind myself of how fortunate I am to have him. 

And to stop comparing with what other people do for their girlfriends!!! 

Glad to have a boyfriend that always make me laugh. 

Every single day. 😘😘😘